Pilgrim, Stranger in a Strange Land

Changes Galore!

2012-01-28T12:28:00.005-07:00

Pivotal moments arise from time to time for everyone. There have been a lot of changes recently. I decided to launch my own computer business "Bentcmark Computer Consulting" (http://www.bentchmark.com). May God bless this leap of faith! As the pastor of Living Waters Fellowship (were my bride Joyce is the co-pastor) I hope to spend at least a percentage of my time with ministry duties - as the Lord leads! However, I expect to handle service calls, sell computer related items, offer consulting services, and do some web design. I am blessed!

Emmanuel seems to be doing well. He has adjusted to his medications and continues to have a positive prognosis. We are so thankful to the medical folks who have been instrumental in helping with his condition such as Dr. Zimmerman and his bride Kelcy (an RN). Emmanuel mostly gives off the aura of the picture of health, except when some of the sickle cell disease pain occurs or he takes a long time to get over an illness such as a virus.

Tonight I have been invited to play drums at the local Celebrate Recovery group that meets at Grace Chapel (http://www.gracechapelcc.com). I am out of practice - so would appreciate lots of prayer! This is an eclectic group of musical artists from many different churches. I have enjoyed the spirituality of the group - and the glorious praise to God the times that I have been there.

Come on down! At 5:00pm there is a complimentary supper served. Sharing and praise and worship begin at 6:00pm I believe.

And, there's always something to do with my pursuit of a Masters in Mental Health Counseling. I just have a couple more classes until I begin my practicum in July 2012. Oh My This Is Another Leap of Faith! During the residency in November 2011, the teacher opined that we were all really counselors already, we just did not know it yet. I hope to feel much more like a counselor after a few weeks of practicum. Then it is off to my internship. I have yet to secure a location for practicum and internship - please keep this in prayer! There is a facility in Thermopolis, one in Worland, and one in Basin. We shall see!

Is everyone as busy as this? I just never imagined that I'd be so busy as a grown up. I thought that 'they' got to do whatever they wanted. And that is sort of the case... it is just that it is easy to decide to do many, many things. One thing that my mentors at Capella University (www.capella.edu) have noted is the importance of self-care. This means that you must take time for yourself - by making this a priority. I hope to take some time for self care now that I have my own business - or am I thinking foolishly? Time will tell!

Blessings to you as you commit yourself to the Lord Jesus and live a life like he did - one of self-sacrifice, love to others, and continual service.

John 13:1-5 "Now before the Feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew that His hour had come that He should depart from this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end. And supper being ended, the devil having already put it into the heart of Judas Iscariot, Simon's son, to betray Him, Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands, and that He had come from God and was going to God, rose from supper and laid aside His garments, took a towel and girded Himself. After that, He poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples' feet, and to wipe them with the towel with which He was girded."

Even so come quickly Lord Jesus!

* News Flash * Kevin and Joyce now Pastors at Living Waters Fellowship

2011-10-08T20:13:00.003-06:00

A few weeks ago, the Living Waters Fellowship, a ministry of the Church of God of Prophecy, accepted Joyce and I as their new pastors. We are so excited about this appointment of God! Rachel, our middle daughter, has been leading praise and worship each Sunday.

Class for everyone is at 10:00am and then regular church at 11:00am. Praise and Worship is mostly contemporary, with a few more traditional songs. This week, songs include selections from Hillsong and Kari Jobe. May we be ushered into the very presence of God, entering His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise! Our hope is to become fully sold out to Jesus during this sweet time of worship, lost in praise.

What would church have to look like, before you would like to be there? Hopefully, at Living Waters, we can scripturally become the kind of church you would feel welcome at. Everyone there is committed to being friendly, supportive, and caring to each other - thinking of the 'new' commandment that Jesus gave, that we are to love one another (John 13:34). Every congregation that seeks to be part of the body of Christ should be strong on this teaching of Jesus. Come Living Waters, and help us make this scripture come alive!

Tomorrow's sermon is on Thankfulness. Unless the Lord directs differently, the songs chosen by Rachel are: "I Am Singing", "Refiner's Fire", "Here in Your Presence", and "None but Jesus". Class, taught by Joyce (and Rachel) is on the subject of the call of Samuel. The adult class will be in Jude (I think :).

We are so humbled that God would think us worthy to serve in this manner. We are also very excited about what the future might hold. We put it in God's hands, and we submit to His plans for our lives. May the Name of God be glorified in us - in Jesus precious holy name!

The church is located at the corner of Sage Crossing and Cardinal, in Worland, Wyoming. If you are looking for a new church home, or just want to visit, do please stop by. Check us out - we might be just what you are looking for! Be blessed in Jesus Name!

Amazing Times in Worland, Wyoming!

2010-01-23T10:05:00.002-07:00

What's been happening the last year? Wow - has it been intense! Most important, our little grandson, Emmanuel Bentch is seeing significant health improvements. As of June, he was started on a low dose of Hydroxyurea (Droxia). Each month or so, the dosage was increased pending good bloodwork. His blood has steadily improved!

Before the Droxia, under a microscope, all of his Red Blood cells were malformed. His Hb was around 6, very anemic. Now - his Hb is 12.1 - no longer anemic! Hallelujah! Yeah! Praise God! More than that, under the microscope you are hard pressed to find even one Sickle Cell, unusual for anyone suffering from Sickle Cell Disease (SCD). Better than that, it has been months since he has suffered a pain crisis. Our lives have changed, and so has his!

We are his caretakers, under the auspices of the Department of Family Services (DFS). We are now licensed Foster parents. We never expected to be raising up another child - but truly - we make our plans, but God directs our steps!

More later! God's blessings on you!

First March - Not Me Monday Post!

2009-03-02T07:20:00.001-07:00

Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can also head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week. But for my week, read on!

It was not me who put off getting kinesio tape on his knee. Now really, would I doubt the reports of my friends who had their knee pain removed with this treatment? If that were the case, I would have suffered unnecessarily for weeks, limping around in a painful knee when relief was just moments away. Humph….

I would never have messed up in my Capella University online classes either. Nope, I would not have thought the required number of response postings was only one, when actually each student is required to post two responses (for this particular class). Then, if I had actually done that, and gotten a 90 instead of a 100, like I would have been shooting for, there’s no way I would have been totally upset about making a 90. That’s a good grade – anyway – right?

And since I am not a medical professional nor do I play one on TV I would never have given cheesy advice to the nurse about where and how to draw blood. Of course, drawing blood from one’s grandchild is a very painful emotional experience. But really, who am I to try to persuade the lab tech (most of whom are young enough to be my kids :) to try for a vein in Emmanuel’s foot rather than in his precious little arm. I mean, just because on his previous visit to ER they had to try 4 times, gold digging each time…. That might have sounded like I was trying to be bossy – oh no, not me!

Just because I used to be a computer guy I wouldn’t go around bragging about it either. Because had I done that, my doctor who is setting up his new office could then have called on me to fix his printer problem. Then, if I had actually fixed it, there’s no way I would have been so proud of myself. Isn’t humility one of the things God blesses you for? Of course it is because God humbles the proud… in fact Jesus said that whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted in Luke 14:11. So it couldn’t have been me.

Those new Roasted Rockstar coffee drinks would have never become my fav drink either. How could I want that type of drink just because they taste great and fully wake you up for a few hours? Not me, uh-uhhh. Had I been in the habit of buying several of these $2 extravagances, there’s just absolutely no way I would have bought some at our local Pamida (a Wal-Mart wanna be) and then lost them. That’s right – lost them only to finally find them in a purse my wife bought as a gift for my mom. The checker might have put the cans in the purse to be more “green” and save a few bags. If that had actually happened, there’s no way I would have danced around the house in glee – and immediately consumed one of these luscious chocolaty coffee creamy things… yum yum – I mean – no way – not me!

Just Missed One; Not Me Monday

2009-02-16T08:45:00.002-07:00

Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.

Just because I live in Wyoming, there is no way I would drive an hour and a half to Walmart. I am not that desperate for Walmart. Everyone knows there is no wildlife in the grand state of Wyoming, so it certainly was not me who had to stop and laugh and wipe my eyes because I saw TWO bald eagles on the way to Walmart. That would be ridiculous.

And had I gone to Riverton on Friday for another Walmart extravaganza, there is no way I would have gone downtown and proceeded to lock my keys in the car. Had I done that, there is no way I would have had to hitch a ride from a local store owner because there are so many taxi cabs in Smalltown, WY. Since that did not happen to me, the store owner did not drive me to Walmart to get my wife's keys. That would be childish. Ridiculous. Ha.

It's not me who is having to retrieve my dog on a daily basis from my neighbor's yard. My dog knows I am the master and my wife the other master. Since my dog knows that there is no way my dog would take up with my neighbor and we'd have to go get him all the time. There is no way he has found a place he is happier at. That would be embarrassing. Stupid dog.

Absolutely not me that spent hours and materials frying up a rabbit and putting it into the oven for the final crispy on the meat. Since it was not me who crisped up the meat, I did not end up forgetting about it for three days. That could not have been me. If that had happened, the housekeeper, upon finding said meat, might have asked if my wife wanted the chicken in the oven. If there had been three day old meat in the oven, my darling Joyce might have had to swallow hard before telling the housekeeper to toss the disgusting, forgotten cooked rabbit. That was not me because I would never put my wife through such a thing. Not me.

And last, but not least, it is definitely not me who sits in a parking lot on another trip to the far away Walmart, dictating my "not me Monday post" to my daughter who lives in Virginia. She did not call to remind me (per her weekly habit) to post my list. I did not then ask her to write them for me while I told them to her via the telephone. My daughter is not long-suffering and wonderful.

Thank you so much for reading; have a wonderful day!!

Preacher Man Kevin's Not Me Post 02/02/09

2009-02-02T08:11:00.004-07:00

Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.

There is now way it was me who walked to church yesterday (Sunday morning) while the temperature hovered around 0 degrees F. You would think that if I had an argument with my bride, that we could fix it or put it on hold for the Lord’s Day – right? And even two angry people should be able to ride together for the mile or so to church – if they are mature. After 31 years of marriage, one would of course expect maturity. Of course, had this happened, it would help people to not put me on a pedestal.

It was not me who felt anger at skinny people. Why would I do that, just because of their matter-of-fact methods for losing weight and keeping it off. Just because they’ve never had 80 or so pounds to lose, I could not expect them to know better, so why turn on the inner anger motor? I’d never do that, never.

Of course I would never volunteer all the ladies at church to put out a meal to 100 strangers who needed a place to gather and eat after a funeral. Not me, why, that might make some of them a bit put out. Of course, had I done that, I would have been greatly encouraged by how they gave it their best and had plenty of food prepared and set out.

It also could not have been me out there barefooted taking a picture of the thermometer that was pegged at 29 or 30 below zero. Nope, I’m too smart for that, why, I might have gotten frost bit or something.

Most certainly it was not me who had to be reminded by one of my beautiful daughters to post the Not Me Monday blog. She would have had to call me from Virginia, while she juggled her precious four children under four, waiting for her awesome husband (magnificent son-in-law) to be mock-deployed at Langely. No way I would have been so forgetful, not me. You can check out her blog at http://jandjkeys.blogspot.com/ which is titled Intense Blessings, which she and all her precious family are - Blessings!

2009-01-26T14:56:00.002-07:00

Not Me Monday (NMM) - 2nd Week

I certainly did not get miffed when I found out Friday evening that this Sunday’s sermon only needed to be 10 minutes long. Plans had changed, why could that bother me? Where oh where has my maturity gone? I kept a straight face though….

There is no way that I would love Rockstar Roasted Coffe so much. Nor could I possibly have discovered how to order Rockstar Roasted Coffee by the case. How can that taste so good? Yum yum!

It was not me who was reveling in the snow covering. It was not me who saw several people frown when I let out the secret that I love the snow and near blizzard conditions here in wonderful Wyoming. Nope.

I would never have forgotten to put the kitchen trash up off the floor, so that our young dog, Mocha, could have had a great time. Oh, had I done that, he would have decorated the entire kitchen and living room in true doggy fashion, trash everywhere. He would have then had a feast.

I, as a grown man, would never get all goo-goo awed about putting e-Sword (a Bible program) on my new cell phone. Nor could it have been me that had ordered 3 phones in the last few months, one right after the other, to finally get the right phone to run the program. Then the first three phones would have had to be returned, to finally get a compatible phone. Who could be so backward as to not read the requirements to run the program?

Of course I would never, never get into a friendly (though long) argument with a sales person on the phone over a doctrinal issue. Oh my, how could I?

It could not have been me who froze up momentarily when a family in the community asked me to perform the funeral ceremony. Not me who had to paste a neutral expression on my face and put iron control over my voice when they told me about the passing of their for a 16 month old baby, Gage Fyffe. This is one of those honors that hurts the heart. How will I be able to speak, especially given my continual thinking of Emmanuel’s health issues, as I speak words of comfort to the young parents.

2009-01-23T23:50:00.002-07:00

Sunrise in Wyoming

My bride and I went out to view the sunrise over the Big Horn mountains while parked high atop Rattlesnake Ridge. We had made the decision to have an early breakfast and then go watch the sunrise while getting ready for bed the night before. What was funny is that I kept waking up, checking the clock, wondering when it would finally be time to get up – because I was actually excited – looking forward to the event.

Reminds me of times past waiting for the clock to move. There is a built in element of anxiousness while waiting for your birthday or time to open gifts at Christmas. But for me, the night before my dad was going to take me fishing or hunting resulted in far more sleepless nights. Much anticipated were those long journeys up to the old home place for those once or twice a year vacations, where we would fish and hunt in the deep woods.

The old folks, grandma and grandpa, at that time, still lived in the log cabin where my dad was born. You could see the way they long ago had connected the two structures, if you studied the construction. At some point long ago, they had decided to place a single roof over the living quarters and the kitchen structure. For some reason, these two sections were generally kept separate. Maybe it was considered risky to have a single roof over both living and cooking quarters, just in case the wood burning cook stove did not behave itself.

If you know where to look, you can still find that log home in Lick Creed Community, Adair Township, District Number 6. That is the way the birth place is listed on my Dad’s official birth record, where the house still stands. Sadly there is not a family living there anymore. Hunters or maybe city folk own it, and it is maintained, though the outbuildings are mostly long gone.

But I love to return and stand there every chance I get, about every 10 years or so. As nostalgia, it is great. As a reminder that you can never go back, not so good. We’ve moved around a lot, mostly job related. Occasionally we get a chance to travel through some place we used to live, and drive by some house still brimming with memories. But it is just not the same, though I would still try to make it so.

At the old home place for example, the secret hiding place for the fishing spear (gig) – is empty. The old barn is gone. The outhouse is still there though. The pile of ashes has almost disappeared. Visible from the side yard, the lower acreage that my dad ploughed with a team of horses remains. Nearby, the old wagon trail with ruts scaring the ground, remains from a much earlier time. Why do I yearn for such things, with an aching heart?

Were times really easier at an earlier time or is it just self deception? Maybe we set in place a filter or unconsciously establish a region of selective memory. However, if there were that many good things about a past time, will I some day view the current time with such favor? If so, might I somehow filter or select so that the present time could currently be lived as I will remember it in a decade?

People say I tend to look at the world through rose colored glasses. I do not mind this observation. Consider Romans 8:1 “There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.” Isn’t this reason enough to celebrate? How about in First John 3:1a “Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God!” That is love indeed, that the creator of the universe would let us be fam.

Then again, don’t forget the sunrise – which started all this meandering. A verse that relates can be found in Matthew 13:42 “Then the righteous will shine forth as the sun in the kingdom of their Father. He who has ears to hear, let him hear!” This is one thing to pray about as you watch the sun clear the horizon in a pristine view like the Big Horns. Oh to be truly righteous – to have the sense of forgiveness that God has so freely given to those who love him and obey his commandments. Watch the sunrise – soon. See if you feel that renewed feeling of hope, with the coming of a new day. I look forward to each new day – and look to find the good things about it, to encourage all that I can, to spread the good news to everyone that I meet and most of all to be a blessing. Is that too much burden to put on the rising of a new sun, the dawning of a new day?

Acts 3:19 “Repent therefore and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, so that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord”. May the Lord grant you a time of refreshing like this!

2009-01-19T00:54:00.003-07:00

Not Me Monday (First Attempt!)

Below is my first ever "Not Me Monday" post. This is a great idea from MckMama's Blog (http://www.mycharmingkids.net/) as suggested by my beautiful daughter, Jessica - Intense Blessings (http://jandjkeys.blogspot.com/ ). Enjoy!

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It could not have been me, weeping in front of the church. No way. Just because a tender hearted man came up during the invitation. He was thankful that his daughter who was in labor made it through the blizzard to the hospital, with 30 minutes to spare. Had I really cried, it would have been because I was thinking about Emmanuel.

Then again, there was no way that I could not find a clock to watch while I preached. Not me. No way that I would walk back to my seat while preaching to rifle through my things to find cell phone to act as a pocket watch. Not me, no. People would have laughed (and rightfully so).

It was not me, not at all, who got distracted at my nearly 5 month old grandson Emmanuel while trying to preach. No way that I had to re-start the sermon – such that everyone noticed. But where did that good humored laughter come from anyway. :).

There is no way that I am fretting over leadership changes at church. Just because I report to the leadership, why would I worry? Ha! The scripture is quite clear “…Do not Fret…” (Psalms 37:8) means it could not have been me, no, not at all, fretting over something over which I have no control. I must have been trusting in God instead.

And what would an old guy like me be doing taking a small baby to the doctor? It was not me who proudly carried in a small baby, along with my bride of 31 years into the waiting room. Why would I dare people with my gaze – to ask – go ahead and ask – who is this beautiful precious baby? Would I really go to all his doctor visits, with or without his mom, just because he is my grandson? No way!

Right there off Main Street, it was not me at all that got stuck in the snow. How could a seasoned snow veteran try to run over a drift, when the visibility was only ½ block? Not me, no – who then had to have my 20 year old son Jonathan push the van. Um-um.

It simply was not me who had to put our 12 year old Chihuahua, Sami, to sleep. Not me. Not me trying to steer the car through watery eyes, on his last ride to the vet. Not me who could barely walk in the front door, carrying the much-loved old dog. No way that I could not look anyone in the eye and had to leave the room quickly, lest anyone see how upset I was. I would never do that.

2009-01-19T00:11:00.003-07:00

With no discernible vacation since Thanksgiving 2007 (over a year ago!!) we decided to take a couple of days off. I know, driving to Thermopolis is pretty lame, but we really need to stay close to Worland, just in case :). Emmanuel seems to be doing well. He has not had any crises. Further, his immune system seems to be excellent having thrown off 3 colds since his birth, nearly 5 months ago.

There is someone to pray for - a 2 year old boy, Gage Fyffe is near death. He has been diagnosed with inoperable cancer. His family has gathered at the hospital. Please remember to pray for them. With Emmanuel's SCD (Sickle Cell Disease) looming - sufferings of others are more keenly felt.

I am trying to figure out this "Not Me Monday" post. I think I can do the post, but not sure how to establish a link to the site. My dear daughter Jessica (http://jandjkeys.blogspot.com/) is doing so well with all of this and has encouraged me to join. We shall see!

So here we are enjoying the hospitality of a hotel in Thermop (as the locals call it). As we were driving up to the front door, right beside the door is a grassy yard - and on that yard are three deer - enjoying a snack. The folks in the restaurant were enjoying watching the deer as well. They are beautiful majestic creatures.

May God bless you in your studies, as you strive to become closer to him in every way. I'm trying to learn to stay on the altar per Romans 12:1-2 where our very bodies are to become a living sacrifice. I'm also trying to learn to love the Lord God with all my heart, soul and mind. Jesus explained this is the most important command (Mt 22:37; Mark 12:30 and Luke 10:27). These verses are quoted from Dt 6:5. The passage Dt 6:4-6 comprise the "Shema Yisrael" or "Hear O Israel" which is quoted twice daily I believe, as part of the Jewish faith. I've been trying to learn better how to obey this command of Jesus - to truly love God in this way. I know how to love him with all my mind and all my heart. But how do I love him with all my soul? The thought here is that the soul is the very essence of the person. The life force - that which makes you - you. That which the Lord God will require of you some day. Love him that way - with your life, if need be. Does that make sense?

Have a blessed day!

2008-11-07T20:57:00.005-07:00

Illnesses, Hardships and Victories

My first cold in 18 months seems to be ramping up, while the right knee that I hurt in the gym by either a full extension or a hyper extension is much better. The most recent hurt to get over though, is the passing of a good friend - Jim Blake.

This wonderful Christian man passed away suddenly, leaving behind many grieving souls. He passed away Saturday night, 10/18/08. There were over 650 people at the funeral - which was wonderfully managed like a celebration and tribute the life of a Godly Christian man. Jim served as a deacon, manager at Pepsi, Washakie Medical Center hospital board, member of Big Brothers / Big Sisters for many years, precious husband, father, good friend to many and served as an executive member (President / Vice-President) of the Pepsi Wyoming BBQ Championship and Bluegrass Festival. Oh how I miss him. Do check out the Bar-B-Que Championship web site though. This was something Jim was heavily involved in:

http://www.wyo-bbq-bluegrass.com/

Never having had someone this close pass away means that the pain is uncommon, unaccustomed. With the death of grand-parents or others far away in space or age - the pain was much less. But when someone close "crosses over the Jordan" unexpectedly, there remains a space that refuses to be filled.

On top of all of this - something so difficult to write about - is that our precious Grandson Emmanuel Neil has been diagnosed with Sickle Cell Anemia. He was born the end of August. We knew there was a 1 in 4 (25%) chance he would be born with this genetic disease. So much prayer went up during our daughter Sarah's pregnancy - nevertheless God chose for this event to happen, and we trust Him.

We are learning so much about SCD, as are the medical professionals here in Worland, Wyoming. The medical staff including doctors, nurses and administrators have shown their interest, stayed in contact, and made themselves available. So far, all is well. Those with SCD (Sickle Cell Disease) are protected by their fetal hemoglobin (baby red-blood cells) for the first 6 to 12 months of their lives. After that, you have to be on the lookout for various crises to occur. It is hard to not feel tragic over this precious, beautiful, perfect baby - who appears destined to suffer difficulties his whole life. We ask for prayer, that he will have a light case, rather than one that is more severe.

In other news, Samuel James Keys was born to Jessica and Jason at the end of October, in their home in Hampton, Virginia. You can check out Jessica's Blog, "Intense Blessings" via a link in my links section. Samuel is a precious baby. If you are counting, this makes nine (9) grandchildren. Seems unimaginable! Amazing blessings.

But what an opportunity for conflict to arise on one's heart! There are so many things happening, both positive and negative, that it is hard to fathom. Thankfully, the days are filled with activities and responsibilities. There are many people in the congregation who seek counseling and assistance - which is enjoyable - makes one feel needed and useful.

Some scriptures that I am using to stay focused on God are:

Isaiah 46:9-10 Remember the former things of old, for I am God, and there is no other; I am God, and there is none like me, declaring the end from the beginning, and from ancient times things that are not yet done, saying, my counsel shall stand, And I will do all my pleasure.

Can I doubt the one who lit the stars? If he created all of this, can I not trust him to mange all the things that I cannot manage? I must trust him, surrender to him, have faith in His ability to master each and every element and consequence of life and living. I proclaim the beauty of Holiness, bless His name and exclaim my love for Jehovah God, father of Jesus, sender of the Holy Spirit.

Have you ever thought about the idea that God is not concerned with many of the things you are concerned about? Money, health, your next breath, the condition of your car or the condition of your marriage - God does not suffer personally with these things. However, he has guaranteed us that he will take upon himself our burdens:

I Peter 5:6-7 Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.

I hereby cast my cares on God. Even though he has no personal suffering, he has made it clear that he is concerned over our pain, from the least care to our greatest pain - he will take it on, if we will give it up. Hallelujah our elder brother, Jesus Christ, Son of God, came here to help us have a better understanding of things above and things holy.

Also, check out some my podcasts. Special thanks to Israel Bentch, my oldest son, for the technical aspects required for setup. I need to put more sermons out there - but would love to hear your feedback. The link is below. However, you can just search for "Kevin's Pulpit" in http://www.itunes.com/ if you want. Here's the link:

http://www.apple.com/search/ipoditunes/?q=Kevin%27s+Pulpit

Typical sermons are 20 or so minutes long. Hopefully keeping it brief is helpful :).

In the mean time - May God's blessings fall upon you and yours in every way as you work to serve our Holy Father, and expand the borders of the kingdom.

Thanks for reading!

2008-08-05T11:13:00.002-06:00

Success and Prosperity

Handout for Sermon delivered Sunday, 07/20/2008 – K. Bentch

God's idea of prosperity may differ from ours. Then if you think of the pattern of earthly prosperity versus spiritual prosperity, the difference is even greater. Further, there are times when we must “wait on the Lord” to renew our strength or to inherit the land for example (Ps 27:14, Ps 37:9, Isaiah 40:31). Our waiting may be working a mighty work, even though to us things look like they are holding still or worse, moving backwards. Do you know what the Bible says about the comparison between prosperity and obedience? Just think of all the things that people do to become prosperous – investments, education, fame, new jobs – to name a few. What would it be like to place yourself on a trajectory to gain spiritual prosperity with the same energy and vigor?

Instead, let's learn together some scriptures about prosperity and success, from God's perspective. And when things don't measure up to our idea of success or prosperity, please keep in mind that “all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28). God's viewpoint is bigger and better than our human viewpoint could ever be. "And the disciples were astonished at His words. But Jesus answered again and said to them, Children, how hard it is for those who trust in riches to enter the kingdom of God!” Mark 10:24.

Give From Your Own Blessings (Ge 33:11). How people feel about their own level of blessings seems to depend on who they compare themselves to. Instead of comparing yourself with others, consider having an attitude of giving. Have an attitude of thankfulness toward God for what he has provided you. “Let him who stole steal no longer, but rather let him labor, working with his hands what is good, that he may have something to give him who has need.” Eph 4:28.

Keep Your Covenant with God – and Prosper (Deuteronomy 29:9). How can God bless us, if we are living in sin? Sometimes, we get in the way of our own blessing because of the way we are living, thinking, talking and planning. Trusting God, even when we do not understand, can keep us striving to live a pure life. “Who are you to judge another's servant? To his own master he stands or falls. Indeed, he will be made to stand, for God is able to make him stand.” Romans 14:4. As Christians, we can trust in God to help us stand.

Imagine with me if you will that you have left your children at home for an hour with specific instructions on what to clean, not having company and keeping the TV off and most of all staying out of the cookie jar. They all beamingly agree to these rules. While you are gone, you buy them some cool gifts - their favorite things. You put some on one pocket, some in another and the final awesome gift in the car so you can reveal everything in stages. You grin all the way home.

But when you arrive, you instinctively know something is wrong. The cookie jar is empty and laying on its side on the front porch, and the door is open. As you go up the steps, you can hear the TV blaring, though apparently no one watching it. None of the cleaning has been done, as everyone agreed to do. Worse, everyone is in the back yard, playing with several of the neighborhood friends. How would you feel about that? Likely, this scenario or something similar has played out for you, if you have children.

How is it with God though? He has blessings to deliver, and is ready - eager - to do so - to give us His kingdom. But if he looks into our life and we have wrong friends, won't clean up our act and won't even do the simplest things we have already agreed to do - do you think that he will take his wonderful gifts and give them to you? Wouldn't that be encouraging you do to more wrong? I'd think that way in the scenario above - I would not want to encourage their behavior at all. Could it be the same with God?

Confidence Through Obedience (Joshua 1:7-8). Disobedience leads to a wounded conscience before God, and man. Woundedness and disobedience also bring on lack of confidence in terms of moving forward, and “standing tall” in your spiritual momentum. Instead, choose to obey, to repent and to strive to do what is right.

When we get home and greet our two dogs - the old dog and the new puppy - it is obvious how they are feeling about things. If they are happy, you know it. If they have been 'doggy bad' say by getting into the trash or chewing up a shoe - they meet you with tail tucked, maybe rolling over on the floor to show their obesieance. Hmmmm..... is that what keeps us from standing before God confidently? What do you need to repent of? How about getting busy and changing that one big thing in your life that keeps you from being able to greet God in all happiness and joy? Let me know how that works for you!

Fulfill God's Law – So He May Prosper You (1 Chron 22:13). Carelessness leads to loss and sadness. Being careful of God's law, on the other hand, according to this passage, may lead to prosperity. Through obedience, those who are Christians may stand with courage. "Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” Hebrews 4:16.

With All Your Heart (2 Chron 31:21). We know what it is like to be enthusiastic for things and pastimes of this world – watching your favorite game, seeing fireworks, fishing or 4-wheeling for example. Take time and effort to become enthusiastic about giving of yourself to God and His Kingdom. What would it look like in your life if you were to give your whole heart to the work of God?

Like a Well Planted Tree (Ps 1:1-3). Trees without water don't do so well. If they grow at all, they may appear stunted, twisted and weak. The contrast is amazing when compared to a tree planted by living, flowing, fresh, clean, clear water. The branches are large and well filled out and the root structure is strong and well developed. Leaves are abundant as are blooms and fruit – depending on the type of tree – when that thing most necessary for growth is present. Be spiritually planted near to God. Spiritual growth only occurs in the presence of your Holy Father. "Draw near to God and He will draw near to you." James 4:8a.

Riches and Honor Through Wisdom (Pv 3:16). Wisdom is something that grows and increases with use. Hindsight can create an opportunity to learn from past mistakes. Try to apply past learning to future decisions. Acting in a wise manner brings confidence, increases courage, saves you from getting into trouble and helps yourself and others in many other ways. Taking time to read God's word and act on it helps you to act wisely. "You, through Your commandments, make me wiser than my enemies." Psalms 119:98a

Pray for One Another (3 John 1:2). As you pray for your brothers and sisters, pray that they may prosper. Praying that others will do well, and succeed, can take your thoughts off yourself – and make you thankful. "Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another" Romans 12:10.

Spiritual Profitability (1 Tim 4:8). Regardless of how good someone's physical shape may be, this earthly body is destined to fade away, except for those present and alive at the final trumpet call. Either way, the spiritual person will go on forever. Which one should get the greater attention? The return on your investment in the physical will eventually perish, as will all physical things. Eternal profitability lies with spiritual commitment and investment. "For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." Mt. 6:21.

Soul Exchange Rate (Mt 16:26). It is possible to focus on physical attainments, gaining material possessions to the exclusion of improving one's spiritual lot in life. We know what it is like to trade money for things or barter time for money or barter items for other items. What would you barter for your soul? What is the value of your soul? You can get an idea of the value by considering the price that Jesus willingly paid so you have a hope of your soul's salvation. "You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of men." 1 Cor 7:23.

(Next Week: When Good things Happen to Bad People and When Bad Things Happen to Good People. How to resolve this? Are we really qualified to judge God - and his decisions?).

(Say- - check out "Kevin's Pulpit" in iTunes. A few of the sermon's preached by Kevin Bentch at the Worland church of Christ are there. Please let me know what you think. Here's the link: (http://www.apple.com/search/ipoditunes/?q=Kevin%27s+Pulpit)

2008-01-01T20:59:00.000-07:00

Latest News from the Worland church of Christ:

Please remember those who are ill. Dave Axtel's mother fell in the Nursing home, bruised but doing fairly well otherwise. Marie C. is still in the hospital, Ruby with continual health problems. Jeannie – fighting flu. Tink's family struggling to get over the flu as are the Canellas.

Katrina is fighting stomach pain - please keep her and her family in prayer as well.

The church also was asked to pray for Jerry and Peggy's newly conceived grandchild – that all would go well since there was a miscarriage before. Pray for Tyler and Amber – expecting a blessed event as well – think sometime in July is the due date.

Shanda's house was broken in to – and vandalized badly.

Remember our widows: Marie C., Barb, Ruby, and Jacque.

Molzahn's are traveling again – ready to build yet another church building in the SLC area.

Dean has returned home – victorious in his sales meeting for his company, http://www.monalift.com/.

Thanks to Jim and Glenda for opening their home for a New Years Eve celebration.

McGee's are on vacation - in Greece, Rome, Italy. Sarah Blake has gone to Japan to visit with Katie.

WNFM – begins 01/09/08 through February.

Thanks to Jodie for hosting the women's day this Saturday – way to go ladies!

Jeannie asked for prayer this week, as did Nick. A number of souls stood to request Ezekiel 36:26-30 be prayed over them. Let's pray for spiritual victory!

This Sunday is the Ladie's prayer meeting at 4:00pm - at the church building. Monday night is the new ladie's class - 7:00pm at the church building.

Joyce and I are planning to set the dates for the next eight (8) week inter-active "Dynamic Marriages" seminar (His Needs, Her Needs). Please let us know what night of the week would work best for you!

If I've missed anything – please let me know!

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Teaching an Old Dog

Years ago, we sort of inherited our dog from one of our kids when they went off to York College (http://www.york.edu/ ) and she was supposed to take the dog back when she graduated. Instead, she obtained her “Mrs” Degree – and her husband only likes big dogs. Sami is small. At his heaviest he weighed in at 12 pounds and had to go on a diet. He may now be back down to his ideal weight of 10 pounds. At nearly 11 years old, he's doing well for his age – about 60 in dog years. Why would I want to teach him something new?

Well, it all comes down to a meeting of minds between the big dog – me – and the little dog – Sami. His primary method of communication is to sit and stare when he wants something. You will be sitting on the couch, minding your own business, and the hackles on the back of your neck begin to rise. You suddenly become aware that for some time the dog has been trying to hold you in his maniacal stare. Your every move provokes a corresponding tilt of his head or shift of his eyes. You are being watched. No, more – you are being WATCHED!

The point is you know that the dog either needs to go outside or needs food. No big deal, you get up and minister to the needs of the little gray/black dog. However, lately the novelty of a staring dog has begun to wane. As a matter of a fact, the delight has begun to pall. Worse, I am determined to introduce a new doggie habit. I want to train Sami to beg by whining when he needs to go outside or needs his food or water refilled - instead of Staring. Am I insane or is he?

Since October, I've been sort of obsessed with training the dog. Curiously this has apparently provided a source of humor for my sweet bride as she observes the struggle. Right now, Sami knows that I require him to whine, but he hates the idea, then we both try to see who can hold out the longest. About half the time I end up letting him outside before he gives me the signal that I've requested. However, when he wants to come back inside, he is required to whine to re-enter the house... the warm house.

He gets this look on his face – you can tell that he wants to rebel. He just sits there, or may even take a few steps backwards. All of this without making a single sound. Maybe after about four times of me partially opening the door to ask Sami if he wants to come in, then saying “OK – Beg Sami... Whine Sami...” he finally is able to enter. Because you see if Sami refuses to beg or whine, then he has to sit outside a few more minutes, until he relents.

So who has the problem here – me or Sami? Am I being totally unreasonable, trying to teach an old dog new habits? Joyce is beginning to give me a hard time about this training attempt. So I set a deadline that if Sami has not learned to whine instead of stare by the end of January, that I will cease and desist trying to teach him. Of course, I've explained to Sami that if he would only whine instead of stare that things would be able to happen when he wants them to – that the sky is the limit on how quickly he can receive a food refill – if he'd only say the right words to me instead of just staring.

Lately I've been thinking - that there may be a spiritual application here. God's requirements for us are pretty small I think. “What does the Lord your God require of you, but to fear the Lord your God, to walk in all His ways and to love Him, to serve the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul, and to keep the commandments of the Lord and His statutes which I command you today for your good?” Deuteronomy 10:12-13 (NKJV).

Is this really so hard? Maybe so, but it is within our grasp, especially since God has provided a safety net of total forgiveness for Christians. So why do we try to change things up? God lets us know that the joy of the Lord is our strength – yet by our actions it is like we think the whine of the Lord will be our strength. God explains that small sins lead to bigger sins and ultimately to death – yet we live like it's OK to allow sin in our lives. God makes it clear that you cannot serve two masters because you will wind up hating one and loving the other – yet we tend to live like we can cling to God with one hand and grasp the Devil with the other.

Is this the same thing as Sami, knowing what I want him to do, yet doing the wrong thing – out of pure rebellion? I'm wondering if on judgment day, God might have a chat with me about my treatment of Sami during this time of training and instruction. I'd love to know your thoughts on this posting. Have a blessed day!

2007-11-08T18:17:00.001-07:00

Tonight marks the last session for the Family Dynamics Interactive Marriage Seminar - Dynamic Marriages. This seminar is basaed on the book "His Needs Her Needs" by Dr. Harley. Please keep all the couples in prayer - that God's will be done! Satan seeks to hurt marriages - and this class seeks to bring about healthy happy marriage relationships. Thanks to all who have helped in this! Feel free to check out: http://www.familydynamics.net

Nikki is doing much better! My favorite saying of hers is: "This is an uphill fight - and I'm going to continue to fight!". Some of the treatments seem to be causing swelling - please continue to keep her and Gary in your prayers.

Gerald M. is headed back to SLC to help get another church building project in order. It is in the early phases of planning and obtaining permits. Please keep him in prayer as he works with the Southside Church of Christ in SLC.

Marie M. is headed back to Florida. Please keep her and her dad in prayer. Both Gerald and Marie plan to be back in Worland for Thanksgiving.

Joe M. is scheduled to be in Casper this coming Tuesday at 4:00pm for further testing and info. He is keeping an encouraging attitude - please keep him and his family in prayer.

Joyce and I are planning to head out for a vacation Friday 11/16/07. First to Rochester to visit Stacey Sikes at the Hands of Compassion Ministry. Then on to Chicago, Saturday to visit children and Grandchildren. Monday we hope to be in DeKalb to visit Joyce's folks and family. Tuesday we hope to head to Missouri to be with my folks, then Lord Willing starting out for Worland Monday 11/26/07. We feel so blessed to be able to enjoy some time with family - though we love our church family here in Worland so very much!

Joyce's hand is doing well for this stage of the game. She is able to use it much more, though there is still pain to deal with. In the image above, note the Trapezium. This bone had become arthritic - and was letting the thumb Metacarpal slip out of joint - a lot. So they removed the bone and took a tendon out of her forearm - and folded it - and replaced the Trapezium. Her other hand is scheduled to receive the same treatment December 7th - Lord Willing! Please pray!

May God bless all of us - as we continue to read and study His word with a view of making Jesus Lord of our Lives in every way!

2007-10-15T21:48:00.000-06:00

Please keep everyone in prayer - by name! There are many who are thinking of being our guests at the assemblies and gatherings. May God draw them in! Thanks for taking time - and having courage - to speak up about Jesus and His church - making a positive difference!

Several among us are in need of prayer as well:

Ruth's sister-in-law, Niki, has been admitted to the hospital today. Her situation appears to be quite serious - please especially pray for her and her family.

Karen's doctor decided to postpone surgery as the risk was too high. There is a possible plan to obtain a second opinion. Please call or write a word of encouragement to her - and her husband.

Joe Sr. is to be in Sheridan on the 23rd. Will be traveling on the 22nd and the 24th.

Joyce's thumb – today marks 4 weeks and 3 days since her surgery. The pin was removed Thursday and today was her first day of physical therapy. These procedures went well, but there is some swelling and pain. She has a persistent cough.

Marie's Dad: He is going into a Senior Citizen's home, but remains in good spirits.

Roxine's Hand Update: her fingers will be taped together for a few more weeks. The issue is that a tendon - a foreign cord - is jumping over her knuckles. If taping does not help, then surgery is indicated. (Having worked with Joyce - and a hand issue - I am very sympathetic!)

Rich's testing – went well. Thanks for praying!

Jody and Drew Dacus are enjoying getting settled in Worland – Glad you guys are here! Thanks for the hard work - already! (Kelcy was here over the weekend from OC - hopes to be back home again soon!)

The Wednesday Night for the Master is going well. Thanks so much for the conspicuous effort and creativity being shown! The activities include: Card Writing, Visiting, Scrap-booking (Worland Church History), Bible Class, Prayer Group, Cooking and Clean-up. What would you like to do? Do you have any activities to add – that you and others might enjoy? Let us know your ideas!

Please pray for: Canella's daughter, Chris McGee's friend and Chris as she ministers to her. There are others to pray for as well, please refer to the Bulletin.

Dean has returned from his business trip to California. Welcome back! (He will be performing some engineering modifications to his product - http://www.monalift.com/. Let's pray for wonderful success for his efforts and his business!)

Do you have any suggestions for the Blog? Please let me know.

Musings:

God did not have to present our world to us in color, but could have made it black & white - dull. He did not have to provide the beauty of sunsets and sunrises, white clouds racing across the deep blue sky, flowers, vibrant colors of fall or the many hues of the Wyoming rocks and hills. But he chose to do so, and gave us the ability to enjoy these views - these pleasant and sometimes inspiring images. Not to mention all the other senses - the ability to touch, taste, hear and perceive frangrancies.

The thought that comes to my mind is - what senses does God have in store for our new heavenly bodies, that we are to receive in the twinkling of an eye? What scenes will we see there? How much more will we understand then? What senses do we lack in the physical body that keep us from perceiving the spiritual realm? Paul said that then we will see face-to-face, but that now we see through a glass - darkly (dimly, obscurely) in I Corinthians 13:12. Oh what will we know then the we do not know now? What will the sound of Angels songs be like? What will the fruit from the tree of life taste like?

Imagine those who spend their entire earthly life studying the creation, without ever looking to the creator. The complexities of creation are astounding, from the smallest particle to the largest physical thing we can describe - there is great beauty - astonishing synergy - awe inspiring interactions are still being discovered. This beautiful place we inhabit could be so captivating, that someone could indeed study, learn and catalog - all without ever looking up to the Holy Father in Heaven. What a shock such a person will face on judgement day!

I'm reminded of a scripture that I believe applies:

Who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. (Rom 1:25)

Let us strive to continuously pray, find that the Joy of the Lord is indeed our strength, work out our own salvation in fear and trembling, visit the sick, fatherless and widows - and love the Lord our God with all of the heart, soul and mind!

2007-10-05T15:11:00.000-06:00

Update for 10/05/2007 -

Karen: has to go to SLC on the 10th for a pre-surgery checkup and then surgery on the 18th. Please pray that all goes well!

Marie's Dad: He's doing well. He is in a re-hab center, not sure how long - four to six weeks of physical therapy and then transfer to an assisted living facility. He is anxious to be up and around, but is in wheel chair for a while, as he was in the hospital for over a week.

Gerlad is back home - I'm sure he'd appreciate a call and/or visit! Welcome back!

Holly's lasik surgery went well, fully recovered.

Joyce's thumb surgery - not much change. She is looking forward to getting the pin out next week.

Please keep our nursing home loved ones in prayer such as Ruby, Neil (and Marie), Dave's mom, Joe Maya Sr.'s mom - and others.

Elijah is not in the hospital anymore - seems to be doing well - Praise God!

Several are not feeling well / under the weather: Jacque, Niki and others.

Dean is on the road, promoting his Monalift business in California and Nevada. Please pray that all goes well.

Please add items to: A box in the Foyer for a Soldier and a basket also in the foyer as a welcome basket for Dick and Sharon.

Judie and Katrina attended a ladies retreat last weekend in Jackson featuring the author of "Fueled By Faith", the text used for the Friday ladies Bible study.

Freshman High School Volleyball play-offs are this Saturday - please keep Karsyn in prayer - and others!

Please continue to pray for various studies and counseling sessions that are ongoing.

Many thanks for all the Bibles that were donated to be dispersed in our community!!

Moved In:

The Dacus family is moved in. Special thanks to all those who helped unload and carry items! They are working to down-size from a large house in Sheridan to a smallish apartment here in Worland!

Church News:

Wednesday Night for the Master is going well - thanks for all the participation and assistance! Ministry opportunities include: visiting, card writing, cooking / cleaning, classes for children and adults.

Please continue to support and pray for Worland church ministries:

Birthright (alternatives to Abortion) - contact Peggy.

Men's Friday 7:30am Fellowship at Ranchito's - contact Jim Blake.

Women's Friday 6:30am Bible Study at Judie's - contact Judie.

Women's Tuesday 10:30am Bible Study - at the Building - Contact Roxine.

Nursing home prayer, study and singing - Tuesday's at 6:30pm - contact Ken.

Women's Prayer Group Meetings Monthly 1st Sunday 4:00pm - contact Judie.

Are there other ministry opportunities that exist in the congregation? Please let me know, so as more can be included!

2007-09-28T21:24:00.000-06:00

Please add to prayer list per Chris McGee:

Ann Stine - who has been battling cancer for many years. Recently she has had several procedures that have left her very weak, ill and in pain. Please pray that Chris will know how to show her Jesus' love and do what needs to be done for her.. and her family.

2007-09-28T12:45:00.001-06:00

Hello to Everyone!

Am planning to begin updating this Blog regularly. Would also like to use it as a way to communicate those needing prayer at the congregation.

Please Pray for the Following:

Please pray for Karen, who is soon headed out for surgery. Rich is recovering from a cold. Keep them in prayer, as they will be traveling to SLC for the surgery.

Marie Molzahn's dad is ill - in Florida. Please pray that all is well.

Gerald is supposed to be back Friday from his building project in SLC. We all look forward to having him back here in Worland!

Elijah, Joyce and Kevin's grandson was admitted to the hospital last night, diagnosed with pneumonia. He may have to stay another night - on Oxygen. Our son - Israel - is staying at the hospital with them.

Holly is recovering from Lasik Surgery yesterday (09/27/07).

Hillary is recovering from a C-Section.

Ruby needs prayer for her ongoing illness and is scheduled to go to Billings for a procedure.

Joyce's hand is progressing well, but there is still pain. The plan is to have the pin removed in two weeks. I'll plan to take some good pics - if you are non-squeamish and want to see them, let me know.

Stacey Sikes car has been repaired. Special thanks to Rich and Roxine for providing transportation and care for Stacey while he was here. Stacey provided a lot of information on the Hands of Compassion ministry - we Praise God for the ministry, his passion and sharing last Sunday.

This Sunday is the 5th Sunday, so there are plans for a pot-luck and early devotional.

The church has launched "Wednesday Night for the Master" where members gather at 6:00pm for a meal and then break up into service and ministry groups. Please find the sign up sheet in the foyer, and prayerfully sign up for the area that You can provide ministry and service to God.

Please remember our teenage athletes as they participate in sports - that they would be protected from injury.

Special thanks for prayers for Baba Oshinowo, a member of the church, in his 2nd year as a pro-football player, who was playing for the Browns but has now been picked up by the Chicago Bears. He is number 70, and is currently on the practice team. Pray that he remains free from injury and is able to work his way onto the active roster. You can read about brother Baba Oshinowo at http://www.nfl.com/ as you can search for his last name - he is the only one until his little brother graduates :).

Especially pray for the couples involved in the Eight (8) week Dynamic Marriages interactive seminar. You can find out more info at: http://www.familydynamics.org/ or contact me, Kevin Bentch at kbentch@gmail.com - or phone me.

There are several counseling and Bible study efforts going on - please remember to pray for them all.

Please take advantage of these Ministry Opportunities:

Birthright (alternatives to Abortion) - contact Peggy.

Men's Friday 7:30am Fellowship at Ranchito's - contact Jim Blake.

Women's Friday 6:30am Bible Study at Judie's - contact Judie.

Women's Tuesday 10:30am Bible Study - at the Building - Contact Roxine.

Women's Prayer Group Meetings Monthly 1st Sunday 4:00pm - contact Judie.

Are there other ministry opportunities that exist in the congregation? Please let me know, and I will plan to include them in this Blog.

There are a lot of hunting efforts here in beautiful Wyoming. Let's remember to pray for safety and success for all!! Here is a picture of me and Ken in the Absorka's. Special thanks for Ken traveling slowly with a green-horn like me!

As you may know, Ken set up a tent in the Absorkas with plans to set up a secondary tent in over the another ridge. However, during his next visit or so - he discovered that the Elk were not to be found. So he has moved his camp to another area.

Please let me know what you think of having this Blog media available for our use as a body. I am so encouraged by all the hard work efforts ongoing and the mind to work in the Kingdom of God! Let us all pray that God takes charge of this effort - and draws many souls! I am looking forward to incredible growth and increases in maturity.

A scripture that I read today impacted me:

Rom 12:16 Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion.

Rom 12:17 Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men.

Rom 12:18 If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.

Rom 12:19 Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, "VENGEANCE IS MINE, I WILL REPAY," says the Lord.

Rom 12:20 Therefore "IF YOUR ENEMY IS HUNGRY, FEED HIM; IF HE IS THIRSTY, GIVE HIM A DRINK; FOR IN SO DOING YOU WILL HEAP COALS OF FIRE ON HIS HEAD."

Rom 12:21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

There are people in my past that I have to forgive often, sometimes every day. Most of these have moved on, and I need to move on as well. There was a time when I was unable to pray for them. However, God tells us that we must forgive from the heart. From the core of our being we must forgive others. I am comforted that God is in charge of settling and balancing the scales - hence His holy word that He is in charge of revenge.

Why do we want to take revenge? I think it is because we want to settle the scales - we want to make it right - and since we have been hurt, we want to hurt someone else. Every time I give in to temptation to take revenge such as through harsh words, angry outbursts, disrespectful judgements or the like - I have never accomplished anything good. Oh, I may have a momentary feeling of satisfaction - but this is immediately followed by remorse for having violated God's perfect will. James tells us that our wrath never accomplishes God's will. Hebrews tells us that when we have a root of bitterness growing that it can cause a lot of trouble and defile many.

Let us all take a moment and forgive someone that we need to forgive - freeing us of fretting and temptation to do something that we may regret. That each and every one of us can do God's will, instead of our own.

Have a suggestion or a comment? Please let me know!

Yours in Christ Jesus,

Kevin (and Joyce)

kbentch@gmail.com (Kevin)

bentch@juno.com (Joyce)

2006-08-04T06:00:00.000-06:00

After years of not doing much in terms of helping small churches, my bride and I accepted an invitation to visit with, minister to and be a guest speaker at a small congregation in Worland, Wyoming (http://www.worlandchurchofchrist.org/index.htm ).

This little group of folks in a town of 5400 or so, in a county (Washakie) of 8500 in a state with a population of around 500,000. Very refreshing! You can get pictures of the area, demographics - and even a real-time web cam at the Chamber of Commerce site: http://www.worlandchamber.com/

I'll enclose pictures of our travels. I don't have many pictures of the congregation - we were quite busy the whole weekend.